I usually wear a pink thong under my jeans because you never know when things are going to get crazy....

Honestly: Eat, Drink, Smoke, and be merry..... Herfing is one of the best things!

wow!!??!?!?!?

so u use your g/f thong or do you have your own??

Our herfs always serve Vintage Port, so it depends on whose bringing a bottle from their cellar. I just fill up a travel humidor and do not worry about cigars. Smoke one of mine, take one from another cabinet... It's all good. Our herf's are more about the Port and cigars are just a facet of it. :al

Well, I prefer velvet and she doesn't have many in that fabric....So I have my own Thongador ....

Aw man, what am I gonna have to do to get rid of that image???

You are crazy bro; looking forward to herfin' it up this weekend in Milwaukee!

Etiquette has a lot to do with location and also wiht the host or hosts as the case may be. I have been to a few herfs as well as being part of the P.P.P. we put on the best herf of them all, the SoCal Herf.

For starters, dress acordingly. Most herfs are informal and thus any casual wear will be fine. Except for Gerry in lingerie. I blame myself for that, becsause had I not asked he wouldnt have put it on. I knew my charm worked well with women, didnt know my power over effeminate males.

When a cigar is given to you, one is not and should not be expected in return. Try and bring enough to smoke for the evening as well as to hand out one or two. If you do not have one to give to anyone or do not have a "nice" cigar to give, just make a mental note to try and return the kindness on a later occasion.

Be a cordial guest. If food will be provided, ask if there is something you can bring. Do not make a mess, clean up after yourself, say please and thank you. Most herfs usually taek place amongst people whom dont really know each other. Conversation such stay clear of controversial topics, if one comes up, listen to the others who are speaking, if you disagree do it cordially and do not get into an argument! That would be bad time for those in attendence.

Always remember to show a little gratitude to the host(s)! This will assure a return invite!!!!!

Now, for some pointers in attending a SoCal Herf.

never let us see you cry!!!!!

This might need to be a sticky. Lots of very helpful information in this thread.

second that..

Very Nice!~